24 August 2006

Back Track

The Moonwalk vs. The Running Man.


I used to hear about how when a person becomes saved that a lot of people that they previously hung around with would eventually disappear. Maybe I just didn’t pay attention, or maybe I thought that my friends would be there forever. I was wrong again, *y'all. One former friend who shall remain nameless made me feel as though I thought that I was better than her because I was saved, and that I quoted scriptures to her. She accused me of judging her, although this was not true at all, because if I had have judged this person on the things that she was doing at the time years ago I would have never ever befriended her (she had some issues *y'all) so obviously that dog didn’t hunt. The most difficult thing about this was that I had known this person for years. If someone would have told me years ago that this person would no longer be in my life anymore I would have called them an outright liar (amongst other things), because I thought this person was a true friend. I even pondered that maybe I was acting like I was better since I was saved. Well I spent a lot of moments in prayer over this issue. I even considered Moon Walking back into my old ways just a little so that she would still like me. Then it hit me like a brick, that is what the enemy wanted me to do, he is a master of manipulation. If you give him an inch, he will indeed become your ruler. I immediately called him a liar and put him back under my feet. If he conned the first woman into eating that apple,then what made me think I was exempt?
I finally came to the conclusion that a true friend will be happy for you and want you to soar higher, and a surface friend will want you to hang around in the shallow end of the pool with them. One of the hardest things that I had to do was to let that person go. When I finally did let her go, a lot of my blessings began to flow. That is when I realized that there are some people who will block (I call them Bless -Blockers) what God has in store for us because we can’t see past them. We want to please them when in actuality we should be pleasing GOD. If your friend wants you to do anything that takes you out of GOD’s will, then they are anything but a friend.

Warnings that someone may not be a true friend; if your friend says you should crawl before you walk, while they are running, if your friend constantly compares the things that you do to what they do, if your friend always talks about the bad things from your past, if your friend talks negatively behind your back to others, and if your friend tells everyone that they are the reason that you are saved because they bought you the bible (which was untrue). If you have someone like that hanging around you, you need to do the Running Man into a more positive direction because GOD is taking you places.

Can anyone out there relate?

Be Blessed *Y'all.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey girl, i have really enjoyed reading your bloggers, they are too funny yet so true. I am so proud of you Felicia, keeping striving for exellence in the Lord, because it is truly a beautiful thang.

-LaReshe

Anonymous said...

Hello my sister!

I can truly relate to this past experience. I had to learn that people are assigned to us to get us off track from where God is trying to take us. In other words, the enemy knows that you are blessed and have a calling on your life; therefore, he will post his demons close to you. These people are like ankle weights which take you to the bottom of the ocean, closer to him. These people keep you in the abyss where it is a cold, dark and gloomy place, where death awaits you.

One thing to be sure that these people are important to your purpose for Christ. Like Judas, Jesus did not expose him as the snake his was because Judas helped the prophesy to be fulfilled.

Therefore, thank these people because they helped us come closer to Christ. Now, I look at the spirit and discern to motive of a person trying to get close to me. There is always a reason whether good or bad. Remember that we can not cut those off who do not expose who they really are---Judas!!! Jesus kept him near!!! smile. Love him anyway and gave him the other cheek. HARD, EXACTLY!!! Allow the Holy Spirit to guide you. In the past, I would have HURT these type of folks. Because of Christ's love in my heart I often pray for these people and be kind to them.

Sometimes that person wants to be happy for you, but they just do not know how too... You know that you had to fight to get where you are today which many think that you should not be there. Or that you should be in the pig pen. Many people feel that when they are on top that they should stay on top ONLY, but I have learned that the same you meet going up will be the same you see going down.

Anything worth fighting for is worth having. I am glad the way my life has turned out because I know that my steps are ordered by the Lord. It is not about us; we are willing vessels that He can use. Many people get jealous because they have not fully surrender there life to Christ. BUT IF THEY DO, THEY WOULD REALIZE THAT GOD IS NO RESPECTER OF PERSONS...TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!

There is nothing that I can do without HIM.

Love you and keep your light shining!

You are healed from this!!! To God be the Glory! Praised the Lord.

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